November 27, 2012  

You Should Be Happy to Have a Job


Ugh, how many times have you used THIS lie of the day to make due with a job and a boss that drive you nuts?  I believe with a few simple steps, that don’t have to cost lots of money, companies can boost employee morale and work on preventing a mass exodus of employees when the economy turns around.


November 20, 2012  

Today’s Lie: I Can’t Be Authentic in My Business


As each of us grows and evolves, I believe we learn a little bit more about who we are, and develop the courage to show the world that person.  However, the journey there is not always easy, and too often, we perceive the beauty that makes us unique as something we need to hide, out of fear of being teased, judged, and rejected.

Today’s video lie of the day offers some strategies to help you to be more YOU in your business.



November 6, 2012  

I’m Stuck in My Life


I recently saw the film “The Sessions”.  (Go, if you haven’t been yet!)  If you’re not familiar with it, the story centers around Mark O’Brien, who contracted polio as a child, and is bound to an iron lung for survival.  You will have to see the movie to learn the rest, but today’s lie of the day focuses on those of us who believe we are stuck.

“The Sessions,” for me, was both inspiring, and made me really angry.  Here is a man who, truly, is paralyzed.  And yet, while he could have given up, and given in, to his disease, he instead chose a path of courage.

It made me realize how many of us who are not paralyzed in our bodies, come to believe we are paralyzed in our lives.

We get stuck believing:

  • We can’t quit our jobs to do what we love
  • We can’t get enough money
  • We can’t be happy in relationships
  • We can’t travel to distant lands
  • We can’t lose weight
  • Our craziest ideas will never succeed

I know you can add your own “I can’t”s to this list – the point is, “The Sessions” made me angry at myself for all the excuses I’ve ever made about what I can’t do, seeing someone who, truly, was paralyzed in his life go after a supposedly impossible goal, and succeed.

Many of us without physical disabilities have done quite a job creating emotional and mental disabilities in their place.

That’s what all these dis-empowering beliefs are to me – emotional disabilities.

And so, today’s call to action is to transform your emotional disability into inspiration.  Because, if you challenge your disability, you will inspire everyone around you.  Think about it, when someone with no limbs climbs mount Kilimanjaro, or someone in an iron lung achieves the impossible (see the movie!) it makes us think about the challenges in our own lives and gives us a chance to view those challenges in a different way.

So, think about your so-called “challenges” and the excuses you’ve created as “disabilities” and ask yourself, what is one literal or figurative step you can take, today, to render this challenge a courageous action instead?



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